One of the best parts of being a gamer is that games and the stories they tell inspire incredible amounts of creativity. Making good on that exchange, are the many cosplayers around the world who bring characters to life at conventions and events throughout the year.
Today you’ll meet three such crafting crusaders! Armaria Cosplay, Turnfolio Cosplay, and Caketastrophe Cosplay chatted with us about how their cosplay identities intersect with their life as active players.
Do you consider gamer an integral part of your identity
Turnfolio: it’s generally just part of things I do as a nerd.
Armaria: There’s so many definitions of gamer - no matter what you’re into.
Caketastrophe: Video games, board games - whatever you’re into - it takes up at least half of my day every day. So I would consider myself…yes. (laughs)
Why are you a gamer?
Caketastrophe: It gives me a bit of happiness in my everyday life. It’s a constant source of fun and creativity.
Armaria: The type of games I’m into include a lot of interactive story telling. For me it’s all about escaping reality and living in a fantasy, sci fi, or slightly altered world. I want an escape from every day monotony.
Turnfolio: I always am here for a good story that allows me to experience the world in a way I don’t normally. You might be limited by your own circumstances, but games open up the world so you can experience something new.
How does cosplay interact with your gamer identity?
Turnfolio: This is a way for me to experience the game that someone else is playing and then put myself into it.
Armaria: The best thing is to bring these characters to life for people who aren’t cosplayers.
Turnfolio: And! It reminds you that while we’re all watching these stories separately - we’re not alone.
Caketastrophe: it’s really nice when you get to bring a character to life that means something to you and then you get to connect with someone who also enjoys that character and they get to see it close up. It’s priceless.
How do you balance gaming with your real life.
Caketastrophe: Eeeeeeerrrrrrrragh. It’s a lot of not prioritizing for me. I have a hard time balancing. I really need to start scheduling my time. With D&D, I have scheduled meetings. Whether or not I campaign prep more than two hours in advance - that’s another question. I run two games right now and participate in three others. I should probably prioritize real life a little bit more…
Armaria: For me, my work time is my work time. My home time is my home time. As soon as I’m out of work - that’s my time to work on cosplay or play a game, or D&D. It’s about all of my escapes and it’s more of a hard line.
Turnfolio: It’s a matter of finding my creativity and using it as an outlet. I have a serious 9 to 5 job and I am dedicated to it. I use games to recharge and to get out stress and express emotion. It’s a release.
What significance do conventions play win your life?
Caketastrophe: Conventions offer you a place to connect with people who share similar feelings about games. As a cosplayer, it’s a chance to show off your work - the hours you’ve spent in your craft room swaddled in fabric and trim. And tears. Sweat. Blood. Here, we get to emerge from all that!
Armaria: I’m so bad about finding new board games. But at cons there are all these people asking me to try new things and I find so many opportunities to explore.
Do you like cooperative games or competitive games?
Turnfolio: I won’t lie. I really like winning. (laughs) I love channelling that into a cooperative game though. We grow up competing - it’s the easy thing. Everyone for themselves - it’s important to get cooperative play in there.
Armaria: Sometimes it’s nice to compete, but cooperative story telling Is great because it’s about everyone working together to make things better.
Caketastrophe: Welp, I like sabotage games. Werewolf. Resistance. Social sabotage is cooperative in a deceptive sort of way right?
What is the relationship between gaming and your mental health?
Caketastrophe: Gaming is a big part of my mental health. Cosplay is a huge creative outlet when I’ve had a bad day. If I don’t want to sew or play games, it’s actually a big sign that I might want to check up on my meds. It’s a good point of reference. Did I make as many costumes this year as last? How long has it been since I went out to play with friends? Gaming and cosplay and cons really help me with my social anxiety.
Armaria: I work a very left brain job while cosplay exercises my right brain. After so much work and hours of sewing - gaming is my escape from both factors. It keeps me sane. I’m an extreme extrovert so when I’m sewing and crafting alone, I need and crave that social interaction that comes with gaming.
Turnfolio: Board gaming is also nice for compartmentalizing. They’re so practical and tactical for when I don’t want to deal with stress and emotions.
How do you find people to play with?
Turnfolio: I suppose it’s whoever looks approachable at cons. In real life, I ask a lot of questions. I find out what people are into and figure out where it matches up. We have to be compatible in a way.
Armaria: Honestly half the time I find people to play D&D with through cosplay.
Caketastophe: I build solid friendships and then bring games into the friendships. I share a game and then they will share a game with me. Then the friendships build along with the games.